Take a look at this link:
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1419286/posts
I guess nothing surprises me anymore. In fact, I've heard that there are countries in Europe that have banned spanking. Let me give you my two cents worth.
Spanking should play a major role in your child's discipline. I believe that children should have some fear of their parents. I don't mean being scared of them, but a form of respect and understanding that there are consequences for poor choices. Take a look at the following passage: Do not hold back discipline from the child, although you strike him with the rod, he will not die." - Proverbs 23:13 (NASB) It's easy to think that corporal punishment is heartleass and harms the child. When done properly, it is very effective. Your child will survive!
I also believe in lots of affection in my home. My daughter loves to give me hugs and kisses. She knows that I love her, even after I've "dusted her bottom." I remember as a kid my dad would always pat me on the leg and say "You're a good ol' boy." We need to remind children that they are special!
Friday, June 10, 2005
Spanking and Affection
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I agree that spanking, when done in love and followed by reassurance of love, is a necessity. How crazy that if we want to discipline our children properly we may have to start considering where we live.
ReplyDeleteI agree in spanking too but it doesn't stop me from feeling guilty afterwards. I feel so bad - it just kills me but I know it's the right thing to do. We kind of go back and forth between time out and spanking - it's very hard to stay consistent. Ahhh, the joys of parenthood...
ReplyDeleteKim W.